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10 signs of a toxic relationship in couples
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10 Signs of a Toxic Relationship in Couples

What is a Toxic Relationship? Toxic relationships can affect your emotional, mental and physical well-being. Understanding what a toxic relationship is the first step in recognizing if you’re in one so that you can start to regain your emotional, mental and physical health. In the plainest of terms, a toxic relationship is a relationship that is detrimental to your well-being and health. It often involves patterns of behavior from your partner that are mentally, emotionally, and sometimes even physically damaging. Toxic relationships can occur in any context, including romantic partnerships, friendships, and within family. Recognizing these unhealthy behaviors is crucial for protecting your holistic health from toxicity. What is a Toxic Person? A toxic person is someone whose behavior negatively impacts others. They may exhibit manipulative, controlling, or abusive behaviors – this can include verbal, mental or physical abuse – that undermine the other person’s sense of self-worth and happiness. They are constantly creating drama and you often feel like you’re walking on eggshells trying not to set them off. Recognizing these behaviors can help you identify if someone in your life is toxic. These people fail to take responsibility for their actions, often manipulate and lie while consistently placing their needs and wants above everyone else’s. What are the 10 Signs of a Toxic Relationship? 1. Constant Criticism: – Toxic partners often engage in constant criticism, belittling your efforts, appearance, weight, personality and opinions. This negative loop can lower your self-esteem and make you feel like you’re not good enough. Examples: Whenever you cook a meal, your partner always finds something wrong with it, saying something like, “You can never cook this right,” or “Why do you always mess up simple dishes?” They always berate you for your opinion: “That is the dumbest thing you’ve ever said. I can’t believe that you’re this naive and stupid.” They attack your looks: “If you started working out, you’d be more attractive to me.” 2. Lack of Support: In a toxic relationship, your goals, interests, and achievements are often disparaged or belittled. Your partner may show little interest in your passions or they might downplay your successes, making you feel unsupported and unworthy. Examples: You tell your partner about getting promoted at work, and they say, “But you didn’t get a salary increase so the promotion is worthless” or even, “You got it? Was everyone else busy?” People who do this are often unhappy with their own lives, so they lash out at others; especially their partners. 3. Jealousy and Possessiveness: Someone who displays alarming forms of jealousy and possessiveness can limit your freedom and isolate you from your support systems. This might include constant questioning of where you are at all times, always needing to accompany you anywhere you go, checking your emails, texts and other forms of communication, or purposefully keeping you from seeing your friends and family. Examples: Your partner is always checking your phone, always has to know who you’re talking to, gets angry and guilt trips you if you spend time with your loved ones without them present. This can lead you to isolate and distance yourself from others and drop activities you used to enjoy due to your partner’s unreasonable demands. 4. Manipulation: Emotional manipulation involves controlling your emotions through lies, guilt, or other manipulative tactics. Oftentimes this will make you walk on eggshells and reduce your sense of independence because your toxic partner is making you doubt your decisions. Examples: Your partner makes you feel guilty for wanting to visit your loved ones, saying things like, “If you really loved me, you wouldn’t leave me alone.” or, “You hung out with your friends a couple of days ago, why do you need to see them today? You’re always prioritizing others over me.” Actions like this can make you feel trapped in the relationship. 5. Controlling Behavior: Along with manipulation above, a toxic partner can show controlling behavior by dictating what you wear, how you talk and who you talk to, and how you spend your time. Their need for control can make you feel small and create a power imbalance in the relationship. Examples: Controlling behavior can take on many forms. Your partner insists on approving your outfits before you leave the house and often disparages them – they’re either too skimpy or too frumpy; you can never get it right. Or they insist that you do all the cooking and chores in a specific way. They also get angry if you make plans without their approval, saying things like, “You need to ask me first before deciding on anything.” 6. Blame-Shifting: Refusing to take responsibility for their actions and blaming you for everything is another common sign of a toxic relationship. This behavior over time, can make you feel guilty and responsible for their behavior, even when it’s not your fault. Examples: After they lose their temper and yell at you, your partner says it’s your fault for “getting them riled up” and that you should have known better than to give them attitude. 7. Gaslighting: Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation where the toxic partner makes you question your own sanity and reality. Your toxic partner might deny things you’ve witnessed, twist your words, purposely deny things that they’ve said to you, or make you feel overly sensitive or irrational when they hurt your feelings. Examples: Your partner insists that a conversation you know took place never happened, or they claim that you’re “imagining things” when you bring up concerns. This can also manifest in them telling you that “you can’t take a joke” and then getting mad at you when they intentionally hurt your feelings. 8. Purposefully Picking Fights: You and your partner’s frequent arguments that are nothing but drama are another red flag sign of toxic relationships in couples. These arguments often leave you feeling emotionally drained and stressed, without any positive outcomes because they keep happening – often about the same things. It also feels like your partner

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Wellness Practices That Won’t Cost You A Dime
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Wellness Practices That Won’t Cost You A Dime

What Does Wellness Mean? Before diving into wellness practices that won’t cost you a dime, let’s figure out what wellness means. You’ve probably seen phrases like well-being, self-care and wellness being thrown around without fully knowing what the difference is between any of them. In a nutshell, wellness is a fully rounded approach to living that encompasses a wide spectrum of practices that improve our mental, physical, emotional and environmental well-being. From achieving a healthy but balanced diet to staying physically active to practicing mindfulness and meditation, wellness is really about improvement in all areas of our lives. Taking care of yourself is self-love, and wellness practices are the cornerstone of self-care and well-being. How to Improve Wellness Without Spending A Dime? In today’s fast-moving world, prioritizing wellness usually takes a back seat amid our busy schedules. Oftentimes, we want to prioritize wellness but we run into financial constraints or feel that we don’t have enough money to pursue activities that we think will improve our lives. Here’s the thing: enhancing our well-being doesn’t have to break the bank. In fact, below are many simple yet effective wellness practices that won’t cost you a penny, a dime or whatever other physical currency you’re used to. Read on for the full wellness list: Wellness at Work Ideas Mindfulness in the workplace: Take quick breaks throughout the workday and engage in mindfulness practices. Engaging in breathwork like simple deep breathing or quick meditations can reduce work related stress and increase focus. Stay Hydrated: Keep a reusable water bottle at your desk; set an alarm to take sips if you have trouble remembering to drink water. Prioritizing staying hydrated throughout the day can help you maintain prime energy levels and promote mental clarity while reducing head fog. Move around: Incorporate movement into your work day routine by opting to take the stairs during breaks or walks, stretch at your desk, and go for a brisk walk during lunch breaks to combat sedentary behavior and boost circulation throughout the body to improve mood. Express Gratitude: Cultivate a culture of gratitude by expressing appreciation for your co-workers, people who serve you food, and for your accomplishments and challenges. This helps foster a positive work environment and improves overall morale. If you dislike your workplace, practicing gratitude for the small things that you do like makes life more bearable and makes getting through the workday easier. Mental Health Wellness Activities       Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself and practice self-compassion by treating yourself with the same understanding you would offer to a friend. Instead of admonishing yourself when you made a mistake at work or in a social setting, tell yourself “it’s alright, it can happen to anyone, it’s not a big deal”, instead of obsessing over what went wrong. Connect with Nature: Take time to spend outdoors, whether by taking a quick stroll around your house or by sitting in your backyard or balcony to catch some Vitamin D. You don’t have to take hours-long hikes to reap the mental health benefits of nature like reduced stress levels and better mental clarity (unless taking hikes is your thing – this is encouraged too!) Journal every day: Sit down each day to write down and express your thoughts and feelings into a notebook. Writing down our daily experiences provides a healthy outlet for self-expression and introspection that can help us remove mental baggage that’s been hounding us. Journaling is also another great and cheap way of practicing mindfulness. Volunteer for wellness: Engage in acts of kindness by volunteering your time and skills to support others in need like at an animal shelter or a senior citizen home. Volunteering is a great way of decentering yourself by putting others’ needs before yourself and can foster a sense of purpose and fulfillment that we don’t get in our everyday lives. Social Wellness Practices Cultivate Meaningful Relationships: Put in time and effort in creating meaningful connections with your family, friends and pets. Developing strong social ties with our loved ones is essential for our emotional well-being and can help in battling off depression. Practice Active Listening: Truly listen to others without judgment or interruption and take time to thoughtfully respond if you’re being asked for advice; tread carefully. Active listening and learning to read subtext encourages deeper connections and understanding in your relationships with your loved ones. Engage in Social Activities: Participate in group activities, attend community events and clubs, or anything else that feeds your interests. Doing this raises opportunities for socialization and camaraderie beyond your current friendship circle and can open your mind to other interests that can make you happy. Set Boundaries with People: Establish healthy boundaries in your relationships in order to maintain a sense of respect that ensures that your needs are met while respecting the needs of others. Physical Wellness Practices       Exercise Regularly: Improve your cardiovascular health and boost your mood at the same time! Incorporating regular physical activity, whether it’s a quick walk or a longer hike, practicing yoga or Pilates (Youtube offers great tutorials on both), dancing to music in your bedroom, is a great way to move your body while getting physically and mentally healthy in the process without spending a dime on wellness. Prioritize Sleep: Make sure you get enough sleep at night by practicing good sleep hygiene habits, such as maintaining a consistent sleep schedule and creating a chill bedtime routine. When you implement effective sleep hygiene habits into your nightly routine, you’ll wake up more refreshed and energized – ready to take on the day. Eat Nourishing Foods: Try to eat a balanced diet rich in fresh vegetables, fruits, whole grains, and lean proteins to fuel your body with essential minerals and vitamins. Incorporating wholesome foods into your meals and snacks,not only supports your health by keeping you fuller throughout the day, but boosts your energy levels and betters your mood over time. Practice Good Posture: Whether you’re sitting or standing

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41 Deep Questions to ask friends when bored
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Deep Questions to Ask Your Friends When Bored

Get to know your friends on a deeper level and gauge boredom Feeling bored? Out of things to talk about? Or, just interested in good, meaningful conversation starters? Whatever the reason, you’re looking to learn more about your friends or ways to get to know anyone better. One way to ignite interesting conversations and deepen your bond with your friends is by asking thought-provoking questions. Why Asking Deep, Meaningful Questions Matters: Asking deep questions breaks the monotony of small talk by fostering intimacy amongst friends; it’s the difference between nurturing close friendships versus staying acquaintances. By delving into profound topics, we uncover new facets of each other’s personalities and strengthen the fabric of our friendships. In this article, we’ve curated a list of 50 deep questions to ask your friends when bored or for those moments when you’re looking to engage in meaningful dialogue with anyone. Questions To Ask Friends To Connect On A Deeper Level 1. What is your biggest fear, and how do you cope with it? Why it’s a great question: Whether it’s disappointing people we care about or something else, understanding how your friends navigate fear reveals a lot about their coping mechanisms; who knows? You might find great advice among their answers and can apply it to your anxieties in your own life. 2. What was that one pivotal moment that changed the course of your life forever? Why it’s a great question: Learning about defining moments like experiencing love and heartbreak for the first time, buying our first home or death of a loved one allows us to understand our friends’ journeys and the experiences that shaped them. 3. What are some wellness strategies you use to feel happier in life? Why it’s a great question: Learning how our friends cope with life can help us shift our perspective on letting go of things that make us unhappy. The wellness practice of gratitude for example, fosters a deeper appreciation for life’s blessings big or small. 4. What legacy do you hope to leave behind? Why it’s a great question: Reflecting on our legacies encourages us to live with intention and make a positive impact on the world. 5. What separates a true friend from an acquaintance for you? Why it’s a great question: By understanding the qualities that define genuine connections, you learn what your friend(s) values the most. Whether that’s trust, loyalty, or something else you gain insight about what matters. You might even learn how to be a better friend. 6. What is your earliest childhood memory, and how does it shape your perspective today? Why it’s a great question: Memories from childhood offer perspective into our friends’ formative years and how they influenced their present selves. Questions that Explore Your Friends’ Fears and Aspirations: 7. If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be? Why it’s a great question: Asking what your friends would change about the world offers insight into their values and aspirations. By understanding their vision of the world, we gain perspective on their priorities and concerns. 8. If you could have dinner with any past or present figure, who would it be and why? Why it’s a great question: Which historical or current figure a friend would choose to have dinner with gives you insight into their interests and values. This very popular question sparks convo on the impact of famous figures on society, leadership, innovation, and legacy. 9. What is your greatest passion in life, and how do you nurture it? Why it’s a great question: This question sheds light on friends’ pursuits that bring joy and purpose, igniting discussions about personal growth, creativity, and fulfillment. 10. If money was no object where would you live in the world and why? Why it’s a great question: Your friend’s ideal place to live reveals their taste for environment, culture, and lifestyle – does it align with yours? Discussing this invites us to envision our perfect circumstances and places in the world that we imagine will bring us the most fulfillment. Questions To Enrich Your Friendships: 11. What is the most courageous thing you’ve witnessed someone do, and how did it change you? Why it’s a great question: Thinking about bravery and courageous deeds makes us reflect on how they shape our own perspectives and actions. For example, “I saw a friend stand up to a bully, despite the risks involved,” makes you think about the bystander effect and why some people freeze while others spring into action. 12. What is one memory seared into your mind, good or bad? Why it’s a great question: This question invites your friends to share a memorable moment, prompting reflection on impactful moments that shaped them. 13. What is the most meaningful lesson you’ve learned from a friendship? Why it’s a great question: A pal might share, “My friend taught me the importance of kindness and compassion through volunteering with shelter animals.” Discussing lessons learned from others encourages us to lead our own lives with meaning. 14. If you could relive a moment with a loved one who has passed away, what would it be? Why it’s a great question: This is a bit existential in nature as it forces your friends to relive moments of people that are no longer with us. Contemplating life and death honor the legacy of those we’ve lost while finding comfort in memories we’ve made with them. 15. What is your go-to way to decompress and recharge after a stressful day? Why it’s a great question: Ever feel like you’re running on empty after a long day of work but don’t know how to destress? Self-care is essential for our well-being, so discussing relaxation and stress management techniques with your friends might inspire you to take up a new hobby or a new way to decompress like meditation. 16. What is your biggest dream for the future, and what are you doing to achieve it? Why it’s a great question:

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Deep questions to ask your spouse during hard times
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Deep questions to ask your spouse during hard times

The strength of a relationship is often tested in the way partners communicate with each other during tough times. No matter what those “tough times” are in your relationship – whether it’s trust or intimacy issues, financial burdens, death of a loved one, or other, it’s during those moments that asking the right questions can deepen your connection and help you navigate challenges together. We understand the importance of maintaining strong relationships, especially during difficult times. That’s why we’ve curated a list of thoughtful questions designed to foster understanding and support between you and your spouse or partner when the going gets tough. 1. How Can I Support You Right Now? This simple but powerful question opens the door for honest communication. It shows your spouse that you’re there for them and willing to provide the support they need, whether it’s lending them your ear, or a shoulder to cry on. Listen and act accordingly. In many cases, you’ll find that your partner just needs someone to talk to. 2. What Do You Need in Order to Feel Safe? In times of uncertainty, feeling safe and supported is crucial for the emotional well-being of your person. By asking this question, you show your commitment to creating a nurturing environment where your spouse can feel comfortable expressing their needs and vulnerabilities to you. Sometimes, you’ll need to act and provide further help in order to create a safe and welcoming environment for your partner. 3. How Can We Work Together to Overcome This Challenge? Facing challenges as a duo can strengthen your relationship bonds and help you find creative solutions. By discussing difficulties you show your spouse that you’re invested in finding a way forward, no matter how daunting the current situation may seem. 4. What Are Your Hopes and Fears Right Now? Understanding your spouse’s hopes and fears can provide valuable insight into their mindset and emotional state. By asking this question, you create space for them to share their innermost thoughts and feelings, fostering empathy and connection. 5. What Are Your Deepest Fears or Concerns About the Future? Maybe your partner doesn’t have any immediate fears right now, maybe they’re thinking about potential problems down the line. Delving into our deepest fears about the future can unveil vulnerabilities that remain unspoken about your relationship or other areas in your lives. By approaching these fears with empathy and sensitivity, you create trust and understanding with your partner.  Your willingness to listen without judgment and offer support shows how much you care about your mate’s emotional well-being.  In sharing their concerns, your spouse feels heard and validated as you navigate their fears together. 6. How Can We Prioritize Self-Care During This Time? Think of different ways to prioritize self-care together. Going through difficult times can make us neglect our own well-being and emotional health.  By openly discussing methods that prioritize self-care as a couple, you reinforce the importance of each other’s health and strengthen your relationship through mutual support and encouragement. Creating a shared plan for self-care – whether it’s exercise, hobbies, or simply setting time for relaxation – is an excellent strategy for nurturing your spirit in the face of adversity. 7. What Important Lessons Have We Learned from This Experience? Going through hard times as a couple doesn’t have to make or break your relationship. Instead, lessons gained from tough times can reveal insights into our own resilience and growth as individuals and partners.  For example, financial struggles while trying to pay off your bills or a mortgage can teach us to budget better and prioritize needs over wants thereby improving our monetary skills. Ask yourself and your partner what lessons you gained from adversity; don’t be afraid to discuss ways on how to grow and thrive together. Bonus:7 Deep Questions To Strengthen Your Relationship              Now that we’ve covered 7 deep questions to ask your spouse during hard times, let’s move on to deep questions that can actually strengthen your relationship, not just during hard times, but at all times. In order for these to actually work, you can’t be afraid to discuss your issues openly.  The following list of questions are designed to encourage further introspection, encourage empathy, and strengthen the relationship with your spouse or partner beyond the surface level.  1. What Do You Need From Me That You’re Not Getting? You’ve noticed your partner is distant, cold or snaps at you every time you provide suggestions or advice – helpful or otherwise. However, the issue may lie in them not getting enough support from you, friends or family during a difficult time. Instead of offering advice or talking at your partner, talk to them by asking what you can do to help. When you invite your spouse to express their needs, you show your willingness to listen and adapt. Instead of telling them what they need to do, try the following question instead: 2. What Role Do You Envision Me Playing in Your Support System During This Time? A great follow up to the above “What Do You Need From Me That You’re Not Getting?” query is “What Role Do You Envision Me Playing in Your Support System During This Time?” Understanding how you can support your spouse will help to meet their needs and expectations better than simply telling them what they need to do. By openly discussing your role in their support system, you demonstrate your dedication to being there for them in their time of need. 3. How Can We Use This Experience to Grow Closer as a Couple? Every challenge presents an opportunity for growth and transformation. By exploring ways to navigate difficulties together, you show your commitment to strengthening your bond and building a resilient partnership, fostering a sense of purpose and unity. Engaging in deep, meaningful conversations with your spouse during hard times can strengthen your bond and provide much-needed support. Remember, communication is key, and by asking the right questions, you can

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Comprehensive guide to Breathwork Techniques for Stress Relief
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Comprehensive guide to Breathwork techniques for stress relief

Our modern grind culture, “crushing it” mentality, and overall toxic hustle culture is a common reason why life has become so stressful for many people. Not to mention the rising cost of living while trying to navigate the historical lack of salary increases. Then, as you observe these scenarios play out on social media, with people constantly showing off their luxury lifestyles, it can intensify feelings of inadequacy and lead to more stress. Whatever your reasons for feeling stressed and overwhelmed are, there are effective breathwork techniques that you can utilize to reduce those stress levels. This guide will explore various breathwork techniques that you can incorporate into your everyday routine to promote relaxation and inner peace. Stress effects on the body and mind: First, let’s talk about the impact of stress on our bodies and minds. Chronic stress can lead to a gamut of health conditions, including but not limited to anxiety, depression, and insomnia. Many physical signs of stress manifest in the body such as physical fatigue (always feeling drained) due to lack of sleep which is due to stress, muscle aches and pains, anxiety attacks, high blood pressure and of course, difficulty breathing normally. Mental side effects due to chronic stress include difficulty concentrating on tasks you had no problems with previously (mental fog), constant feelings of anxiety or nervousness, and feeling irritable with yourself or others for no reason. Breathwork techniques for stress relief offer an approachable method to the above issues, prompting the body’s relaxation response and countering the effects of stress while promoting feelings of calm and well-being. Let’s take a look at some of the best breathing techniques to alleviate stress below. Best breathwork techniques for stress relief Deep Breathing – great for those beginning breathwork: Deep breathing involves slow, deliberate inhalations and exhalations, focusing on fully expanding the lungs and engaging the diaphragm. Practicing deep breathing for several minutes can calm the nervous system and promote relaxation. 4-7-8 Breathing Technique: All the rage on Reddit, the 4-7-8 breathing technique involves inhaling for a count of four, holding the breath for a count of seven, and exhaling for a count of eight seconds. This method of breathing helps regulate the breath and induce a state of deep relaxation for better sleep. The 4-7-8 breathing technique is based on pranayama yogic breathing practices originating in India. Square breathing for stress: Square breathing, also known as box breathing, entails closing your eyes, inhaling through the nose, then holding the breath, slowly exhaling, and holding the breath again, each for a count of four seconds. If at first you feel lightheaded, only repeat once and slowly build up the reps to 1-2 times over the course of a few days until you get the hang of it. Make sure that you’re taking deep breaths – your stomach should be rising and falling with each inhale and exhale – as opposed to shallow breaths. Like other breathwork techniques,square breathing for stress can help quiet the mind and induce a feeling of calm and relieve stress. Alternate Nostril Breathing or Nadi Shodhana: Nadi Shodhana or alternate nostril breathing is another yogic breathing method that involves alternating the flow of breath between the left and right nostril. How to alternate nostril breathing the simple way: Start by inhaling through the left nostril while covering the right one with your right thumb, followed by exhaling through the left nostril. Next, inhale through the left again, but this time, cover the left nostril as you exhale through the right nostril. Repeat this process by alternating nostrils, focusing on relaxing and mentally uncluttering your senses. Sama Vritti or Equal Breathing: Equal breathing, also known as Sama Vritti, is a simple yet effective technique for stress relief. Begin by finding a comfortable seated position and closing your eyes. Inhale slowly through your nose for a count of three or four seconds, allowing your abdomen to rise as you fill your lungs with air. Then, exhale through your nose for another three or four-second count, feeling your abdomen fall as you release the breath. Practice the Sama Vritti technique for a couple of minutes, gradually increasing the duration of seconds for your inhales/exhales as you become more comfortable. The key is to maintain an equal duration of time for both the inhalation and exhalation. Like other breathwork techniques, equal breathing can help calm the nervous system, reduce stress, and improve overall well-being. Lion’s Breath or Simhasana: Lion’s breath, or Simhasana, is a unique breathwork technique that involves forceful exhalation and vocalization. Begin by sitting comfortably with your spine tall and your hands resting on your knees. Inhale deeply through your nose, then open your mouth wide and stick out your tongue, exhaling forcefully with a “ha” sound, as if you were roaring like a lion. As you exhale, simultaneously gaze upward towards the space between your eyebrows. This powerful exhalation helps release tension in the chest and face, while the vocalization can help relieve stress and improve vocal flexibility. Lion’s breath is particularly beneficial for reducing anxiety and promoting a sense of release and liberation. Bee Breath or Bhramari: Bee breath, or Bhramari, is a relaxing breathwork technique that involves making a humming sound on the exhale. How to do bee breath: Begin by finding a comfortable seated position and closing your eyes. Inhale deeply through your nose, then exhale slowly while making a low-pitched humming sound, like the buzzing of a bee. Feel the vibration of the sound reverberating throughout your body, soothing your nerves and calming the mind. Repeat this process several times, focusing on the sensation of the humming sound and allowing yourself to relax deeply with each exhale. Bee breath is particularly effective for reducing stress, anxiety, and tension, promoting a sense of inner peace and tranquility. Skull Shining Breath or Kapalabhati: Skull shining breath or Kapalabhati, is an energizing breathwork technique that involves rapid, forceful exhalations followed by passive inhalations. Begin by sitting in a comfortable position with

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Fall foliage fall colors brighten mood and lower stress
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This unique fall activity brightens your mood and lowers stress

While some sigh a breath of relief for the end of summer and its unrelenting heat, for others it’s a disaster as it signals the end of bright, sunny days and the start of brisk, more overcast weather. However, for both the fall enthusiasts and fall detractors there are benefits to the autumn season as both groups can suffer from elevated fatigue and higher stress levels due to the colder weather. One of the best ways to lift up your spirits, improve mood and lower your stress levels is to take up fall foliage viewing or as it’s known by its less popular moniker, fall leaf peeping. What is fall foliage viewing and how can it help your mood? Fall foliage viewing is simply the act of observing or viewing plants and leaves change their colors from deep greens to vibrant fall colors like yellow, orange and red during the autumn season. Viewing fall colors while immersing yourself in this seasonal practice can significantly uplift mood and reduce stress levels, offering a low-cost alternative to wellness and mindfulness through nature. Where to see the best fall colors and fall foliage to uplift mood and improve relaxation? Curious where to find the most picturesque fall landscapes for elevating your mood during the autumn season? From hidden gems in cozy, small towns to the expansive beauty of American and Canadian national parks, we’ll guide you to the best spots to witness the magic of fall foliage and fall colors. The below list explores these stunning vistas, where trees transform into a canvas of burnt oranges, sage yellows, and rustic reds. The best places in the US for the colorful world of fall foliage and fall colors: Stowe, Vermont Also known as Fall’s Color Capital, the picturesque New England village of Stowe in Vermont transforms into a fall wonderland with sugar maple and hickory trees ablaze with vibrant rustic colors during autumn months. Take a scenic drive along Stowe Mountain and Smugglers Notch Scenic Highway for stunningly breath stopping vistas. Click here for Stowe’s foliage finder scenic route guides for more. Asheville, North Carolina Tucked away in the Blue Ridge Mountains, the mountain city of Asheville, NC boasts a vast array of vivid fall hues. For a fully immersive experience, book a multi day drive through the Blue Ridge Parkway or hike through Pisgah National Forest for some truly awe-inspiring scenic autumn views. Best times to visit Asherville and Blue Ridge to see fall foliage and fall colors start in late September to early November. Acadia National Park, Maine Coastal splendor meets autumn beauty in Acadia National park. From Sand Beach in Bar Harbor to the park’s bike carriage roads there’s something for everyone. Take a day hike in Cadillac Mountain for panoramic views of fall foliage against the Atlantic Ocean backdrop. Now, when is the best time to see fall colors and fall foliage in Acadia National Park? According to the official Acadia National Park’s website, that time is generally in mid October. For more places, hikes and tours for seeing fall foliage in Acadia National park visit Acadia’s trip suggestions page. Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Tennessee/North Carolina: Also known as The Smokies, the Great Smoky Mountains National Park is one of the most popular US national parks, offering a vibrant tapestry of fall colors and of course, fall foliage. The Smokies’ fall colors are particularly spectacular due to the park having about 100 different species – sugar maple, scarlet oak, sweetgum, red maple, and hickories are just some examples – of native trees within. The best time to visit depends on the elevation of the park. However, it seems like fall colors and fall foliage typically peak between mid-October and early November at mid and lower elevations of the park. For breathtaking views, take a trek up Clingmans Dome, the Foothills Parkway, or a drive down Newfound Gap Road. Plan your visit here. The Enchanted Circle Scenic Byway, New Mexico A hidden gem in the Southwest, this scenic Enchanted Circle Scenic Byway takes you through the Sangre de Cristo Mountains, providing a different kind of fall beauty with golden aspens against the high desert landscape. The Enchanted Circle Scenic Byway drive begins in the town of Taos and is one of the best places to see fall colors and fall foliage along your Enchanted Circle Scenic Byway trip. Must see towns and attractions include: The Taos Pueblo (located in Taos) Questa, Red River, Eagle Nest Lake State Park and more. The best time to visit seems up for debate, but many sources report mid-October although some argue that late September to early to mid-October is peak fall foliage time in this region. Whatever you decide, plan your trip in advance and enjoy! Find more spots for fall colors and fall foliage in New Mexico state here. Columbia River Gorge, Oregon Experience autumn along the Columbia River as the Gorge transforms into a canvas of red, gold, and green hues. Two of the most popular spots include Multnomah Falls (highest waterfall in the Gorge at 620 feet) and the Rowena Crest Viewpoint which offers sweeping vistas of the Columbia River Gorge. Typically, late September to mid-October is the best time to see the Columbia River Gorge’s fall leaf foliage. For more info click here. Shenandoah National Park, Virginia Skyline Drive in Shenandoah National Park is renowned for its breathtaking fall foliage and fall hues of reds, oranges, and yellows. Hike the Stony Man trail to Stony Man Mountain’s prominent peak as it’s known for its stunning views of the Shenandoah Valley. Hiking the Hawksbill Mountain provides a more expansive experience, since it takes you up to Hawksbill Summit which is the highest point in Shenandoah at 4,050 feet. Due to the expansive size of the park and the weather, it makes it impossible to pinpoint the exact moment when fall color will peak. However, Shenandoah National Park’s fall season typically lasts from late September through October and November months, making

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